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2007, The Year I Made That Leap Of Faith and Changed My Blog Name

by on April 12, 2012

Me and Tori; she's just a year old. Aw.

2007 was a huge year. Tori was growing up, I quit my job, and I changed the name of this blog, and I changed the entire direction of my career and passions.

Yup. Big year.

After Christmas I started putting out feelers about changing my work situation. I had a wonderful job at a wonderful place, but I was incredibly unhappy being away from Tori so much. So I began to seek work-from-home opportunities, part-time work I could supplement with writing, a job that was more stimulating – basically, anything I could find that would help me find the life I wanted.

It was mid-spring when the husband of a friend said he needed someone to do a high volume of article writing for an educational website. He offered me 37.5 hours a week from home, at a great hourly rate, which exceeded my salary at the time just enough that I could buy myself health insurance. It was the perfect solution, and in May of 2007 I quit my job and began working from home.

I loved it; the website I was writing for wanted great, in-depth articles on subjects that were actually pretty interesting, and I found that I was a content machine, able to produce multiple articles a day. I couldn’t have been happier.

And then there was this blog. It was awkward making the transition from infertility blogger to parenting blogger, and even more awkward seeing the opportunity to become a blogging professional and knowing that there would be consequences if I decided to blog for money. I struggled hard with what to do.

The first thing, though, was to tackle the name of the blog. Although “And I Wasted All That Birth Control” was hysterical, it was hard for infertile women to land on my blog and expect to see a woman struggling as they were and instead be greeted by baby pictures. So I knew I needed a change. But I also knew I wanted to honor my readers, so I allowed them to nominate suggested titles. I sorted through the nominations and eventually selected six potential titles (five possibles and a runner up) that I knew I could live with, and put it up to a vote.

Uppercase Woman was the winner, and I know it was right because unless I look at the post with the other potential names, I totally forget the other options (although I still love “Three the Hard Way”, heh). I hand counted all 340 of those votes, too; back in 2007 there were no handy tools to use (that I knew of, anyway, and would work with Typepad) to calculate votes.

It was a great year. On a final note, I wrote one of my very best posts that year, one that still gets a fair amount of traffic and was even featured in a book. I hope I can be that fired up and succinct this election year.

Next up, 2008!

 

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Pam April 12, 2012 at 11:15 pm

I found you long ago. Back in The Day. Read you every day in/from the trenches of infertility loss – the floor cake, the pain, and how you wrote yourself through it. Years ago. Feels like some other land, some other time, some other person, and feels like us just five seconds ago, right? At least for me. You were brave then, making leaps of faith in words that most of us could barely put together in our own heads. Foggy, griefy times. And brave to choose to honor one life and embrace the next one. Looking forward to whatever’s next. Just thought you’d want to know we’re still out here, reading and cheering you on. Bet I’m not alone. (Which, of course, is your whole point.)

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MBirn April 12, 2012 at 11:23 pm

Cecily – I love the new masthead, but the font in the blog is practically unreadable. Your writing is inspiring and moving – please give me back a font I can read!

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MBirn April 14, 2012 at 1:24 am

You fixed it!!!! Yay Cecily!!!

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Erin April 13, 2012 at 5:05 am

I just read “Health vs Life” and all the comments you received back then. All I have to say is that you are incredibly strong for putting your story out there. While some comments were ridiculously ignorant and hurtful, I was happy to see most of them were of support. No one can ever understand unless they are put in that position… Thank you for sharing your story, it most certainly makes others who have gone through that feel a little less empty inside. Also really solidifies my ever lasting belief that no one should ever tell another what they can/can’t do to their own body.

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Jasmine April 13, 2012 at 10:28 am

Such a cool history!

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Christine@TheAums April 13, 2012 at 11:55 am

I am currently in a similar position of career transition, leaving a job that has treated me well for the past 9 years but just ready for a change. Reading this helped push me a little farther in my journey…thank you for sharing

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Jenni Chiu April 13, 2012 at 2:21 pm

I also just read Health vs Life and am amazed at your honesty online. I’ve been a lurker since a great big hug you gave me backstage of VOTY last year. It was incredibly timely to read that post today, as I am feeling quite terrified and brave over my latest posts.
Thank you for always sharing.

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Pam April 13, 2012 at 7:10 pm

I remember this so well. I really can’t believe it was so long ago. I voted for your current name! I’ve been reading you forever. Thanks for sharing!!

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